Showing posts with label day in the life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label day in the life. Show all posts

8.08.2017

A Day In the Life

I seem to do these right before big changes. And since we have no idea when we'll get a foster placement, I feel like I'm just waiting for a big change! I know the end of pregnancies aren't completely pleasant for a variety of reasons but at least you do have a basic end date to look forward too. Babies don't stay in forever! So I'm not sure how long this will be our "average" day but for now, it's my life!

? am - Jonah joins us in bed. I realize how glad I am that this is a fairly uncommon occurance.

4:45 - Norah joins us in bed. But it's about time for Craig to get up. Craig is obviously much bigger than Norah but somehow I end up feeling more crowded when the two change spots. But both super snuggle so I can't resent it too much.

6:45 - Time to get up. I'd like another 15 minutes or so and quite frequently I can convince the kids to go play duplos in the living room while the sleepier ones of us (normally Jonah and I) stay put a bit more but Norah climbs out of bed and brings me a diaper, waking Jonah up so 6:45 it is. It could be earlier so I can't complain too much.

Kid's declare they will do all their morning chores before breakfast! (they have to have them done after breakfast before we go outside, but if they want to do them before breakfast, that's fine). They lose motivation after getting dressed and start to play. I make oatmeal.  I'm so happy the kids were playing and I was able to make it myself today. We are going through the Kids Cook Real Food Course and it is wonderful but the kids insist on helping 90% of breakfasts now. We're pretty close to them being mostly independent with our two typical breakfasts (oatmeal and fruit; scrambled eggs and toast) so I anticipate in 3-6 months, my breakfast role will be much easier but for now, I'm supervising three people and its a bit chaotic. So when they are having so much fun that I can sneak it and do it myself once a week, I appreciate the calm.

Lucy is working on her AHG Family Helper Badge so she has been promoted from sweeping floors to unloading and loading dishwasher. The first week and a half, she was super excited. The shininess of a new task is wearing off but after I finish the oatmeal (yes, I deliberately waited until it was done so she couldn't help. I'm awful - but honest), I remind her if we do all this now, after breakfast she'll just have to add a few bowls and be done. She's puts on a brave face and gets it done. I feel a teensy bit bad because it was supposed to be a 2 week only thing but she's proved to be quite good at this tasks so I've officially moved Jonah to sweeping the table for his breakfast chore and Norah gets his task of wiping the tables (with a good check by me afterwards so we aren't schooling on a tabletop of maple syrup residue!).

7:30 - Breakfast of Oatmeal and fresh peaches. I love summer food. I feel like I could live on our local farmer's market store peaches and melon when they are in season. Must remind Craig to get more for our camping trip tomorrow.

7:45 -  While I was cooking, Norah was exploring. Someone must have left the baby lock on the board game cabinet open. I normally leave Norah messes until our regularly scheduled pick-up times or I'd spend all my day following her around picking up after her but this one is right where Jonah needs to sweep so...well begun is half done! And it didn't take too long. While I'm picking up, kid's are getting ready for the day. Even Norah has her task.


That's chickens if you can't tell. It means she's going out to feed the chickens her leftover oatmeal. She takes her jobs very seriously.

8:00 - Chores are done and kid's are playing nicely inside while I start laundry. This is when I hate to disrupt non-fighting kids but it's time to go outside. Hopefully the playing nicely part will transfer too. Kids play while I workout. I was doing really well last winter but had a bit of a thryoid crash that I think was due to the cardio. So I stopped for quite a while and now I'm starting again with just weight lifting and no cardio beyond walking/hiking. Hopefully my body cooperates but so far, so good. I love my view.


Of course, I often have company. Sometimes it looks like this.



Sometimes they are even closer. But crunches with chickens sitting out your knees or a Norah on my stomach just increases the efficiency of my workout time right?

8:45 - Oh, the whining. We normally play outside until at least 9, often 9:30 but for some reason, everyone is cranky today so we head inside again. I put on some Getty Kids music and they all play magna-tiles while I take a shower.

Norah telling me she's hungry and the other two agree that a snack is needed. They all had two bowls of oatmeal but I didn't put eggs in it this time so maybe some protein will do us all good. Yogurt for everyone.



9:00 - Mom has a few minutes of school prep. Everything we do is pretty much open and go but I do love having 5 minutes to think before we start.

9:10 - Table Time (prayer, bible memory, songs and poem recitation) then I read a couple picture books to the littles while Lucy does handwriting. We switch and Lucy reads a few  more books to Norah while I do a few minutes of Jonah school. Well, that is what is supposed to happen and normally, it does but Norah is still cranky and wants to look at books by herself so Lucy works on folding laundry but then Norah gets mad that Lucy isn't paying attention to her. Lucy is telling me that this doesn't make sense. Welcome to the toddler life big sister! We push through.

Lucy and I read and narrate the Burgess Animal Book. We're finally passed the rodent section! If you've done AO Y2, you probably know how happy I am! We do really like that book but I'm over rodents right now. We update our tree and add the shrew stickers while Norah draws on my leg. Eventually I realize what she's doing and stop her. We do French then we move to the living room to read The Wind in the Willows and finally Norah starts playing by herself. Except now she's found a pen and starts drawing on the playtable. I take away her pen. She finds another. Where are they coming from! I take that one away and give her a slightly firm "Pens are for paper"! She melts down. We skip phonics for now so...

11:00 - Lunch! - and a dose of ibuprofen for still cranky Norah. When I ask her if she has a hurt, she points to her mouth. I hate molars. Another mini-meltdown when she asks for a drink but says no to milk and water. As those are the only options, we are at an impasse. It does not end well.

11:30 -  Normally we'd do a short piano practice and a longer free play time but Lucy has been waiting all week for her special one on one with mom cooking practice time. Making muffins without mom touching a thing! We're just prepping the dry ingredients for now and will finish up when Norah (hopefully!) naps. Except for my needing to catch a mis-read cinnamon amount, she does really well. And she lets Norah help her stir the mix so for a few minutes, Norah is happy too.

12:00 - Kids play with magnatiles while I take a few minutes to update this and breath. Breathing is nice. Just kidding. I forgot to restart laundry. We're going camping tomorrow so I'm really trying to get it all done before we leave.

12:05 - Norah is clearly done with the morning. We normally start naptime routine at 12:15 with a quick pick-up and a chapter book (right now it's More Stories from Grandma's Attic) but I tell kids we have to skip that (I hear yays for the first part, boos for the second) and start their audiobook (Burgess's Uncle Billy Possum). They can play legos quietly until it stops automatically in about an hour. Norah normally gets a bit of just mommy time now with picture book or two, nurse, snuggle then I leave her with books until she falls asleep. We skip the books and she doesn't finish nursing before she's out.



12:20 - Me time! Actually, God time.  First up is bible study. Since we didn't do a clean-up, I have to shove aside a puzzle and a belle dress to find some room on the floor but it's quiet so it doesn't bother me.



Then I grab my vitamins, a peach and a bottle of water and decide not to start with the school supply sorting I had planned but to squander 10 minutes on my phone. Eventually I decide to can muster up the energy to actually do it. I normally love organization but in this case the problem isn't a lack of organization, its too much stuff in the armoire and I can't fix that problem for two months (when a portion of it will be leaving) so temporary shuffling and stuffing is required. It's driving me crazy. At least there is a specific deadline. And I've decided I need a real desk. We aren't really a "homeschool room" type of family but I think I am a real desk sort of teacher. Not sure if that will go in the basement as part of the remodel or if I want to replace the armoire. None of that is happening until basement is done. But stuff to ponder! (Aren't you excited Craig! Another project!)

1:10 - Lucy and Jonah are up. Lucy finishes up her muffins while Jonah and I hang around providing emotional support.

2:00 - Math time while muffins bake. She's been struggling with crossing the tens this week. It's a new concept so that's to be expected but the shutting down and getting mad at me is not okay. Today was much better though! I like math and she likes math but when you have a bad math day, it just seem to take a bigger toll than a bad any-other-subject day.

2:20 - Math is done. Muffins are done. Kid's are playing while I'm finishing getting ready for the day and loading car up. Norah wakes up (smiling!) just in time for us all to go pick up our milk from the farmer meet-up we have and then swing by pharmacy. We get the older lady who doesn't offer lollipops not the younger one who does. It's the little joys in life! (That makes me sound cranky but she often only gives us 2 lollipops so I have a very unhappy rear-facing tot watching her brother and sister eat candy in front of her or if she does give me three, then Norah is waving a sticky lollipop around the car. It's a lose-lose situation as far as I'm concerned!)


The classic mini-van mom selfie. I feel like I should really be holding 
a starbucks in my hand but I don't drink coffee. 


3:15 - Tea time. Muffins are a success and Jonah compliments Lucy with a "I think we should call you the best cooker ever!" We study some Whistler but all agree that "He's not our favorite."  Which sounds okay until you realize that is what the kids are allowed to say about a food when what they really mean is "This is gross. I don't want to eat this." I think we might skip our last two prints of his and move on to another artist. We gave him a good shot but its time. I read Missionary Stories with the Millers and then we practice Solfa. Thursday is normally our longest day but even so, I feel like school is taking way too long but I had to turn down kid's request for more Solfa so I guess they don't.

4:00 - Kids are off finally off playing outside and I start beans in the instant pot for tomorrow. It's my first time trying to convert a recipe by myself but luckily we aren't planning on eating it today so I have some buffer time if it all goes wrong. Then I take Norah outside to play because she's been banging on the door and holding her shoes since they left her behind. It's tough being the baby.

4:15 - Daddy's home! I head back inside to start tonight's dinner while Craig watches kids. In between dinner steps, I switch laundry again. Almost there, I can do it! I also complete the hours log for the last few days. This is the first year I legally have to record hours and its not hard but I'm still getting in the habit. But after one month, we are well on our way so I'm not worried about reaching the 1000 hours we need. It helps that they do about 2 hours of audiobooks a day and at least another hour of reading aloud with Craig and I. Since I'm a book snob, I have no issues counting that as literature time. Kid's come in intermittently to ask what's for dinner. And then to ask again because they forgot what I said 5 minutes ago. And then Jonah wants to show me how he got himself "so very terrible dirty you won't even believe it!"





5:30 - Dinner's over. It was a hit.


I am enjoying Lucy's family helper week. She normally a pretty good helper but is going above and beyond today. We loaded dishes together and she ran them then folded more laundry and got Jonah and Norah to help her put it away. All while I'm resting on the couch! Norah can't help but see a resting mommy as a jungle gym though so she climbs and gives her famous super intense face hugs. 



6:45 - Bedtime routine! We actually get to the 10 minute tidy this time and then kids read some pictures book with me, family bible time, chapter book with daddy and we tuck everyone in. We're transitioning Norah to the kid's room but night # 2 goes about the same as night #1. She thinks its a great idea until it's time to actually lay down. Then she grabs her blankie and dolly and literally runs over to my room. The funny part is that it's not like I stay with here there. No, I tuck her in and leave her with some books to look at and she falls asleep on my bed. Then I move her. So you'd think she could do the same thing on her bed. Maybe next week. But I really enjoy being at the point where I can actually just tuck all my kids into bed and leave them. I think Norah is my first to be at that stage before the age of two. And I still get to snuggle and nurse her at night before I leave so it feels like a magical age.

I then finish up the (not quite) baked beans. Recipe worked but I used a bit too much water so I just turned on saute with lid off for a while to reduce it. Meanwhile I finish planning our camping meals (the night before! I know, crazy, but it was a last minute trip!) while Craig does the packing of tents and sleeping bags. I switch laundry again and it's all done! Hurray! I had hoped to pack clothes today but it will be fast in the morning.

8:30 - I'm blogging on the couch with Craig. Then I'll get ready for bed, transfer Norah over and read a bit in bed. I'm finished term two of Ambleside Online Year 7 last night so now on to term three! Then after I do a bit of hard reading, I'll probably switch over to Wives and Daughters if I can stay awake. I'm normally asleep by 10 and I'm not sure how much sleep I'll get tomorrow in the tent so I won't be pushing that tonight.

10.05.2016

Another day in the life

I don't know when I last did one of these. It probably wasn't too long ago but I feel like things change so fast and I don't want to forget what my daily life was like at different times. Also, I'm going to try to add lots of pictures from my camera phone but I won't be editing them, so ignore any random feet, semi-clothed children or dirty faces. Real life people!

6:30 - Norah's up. We play one of her favorite games which consists of her shoving a farm animal in my face until I say its sound. Repeat until box is empty.

7:00 - Big kids are up. I make breakfast while they play with Norah. They kids remind me that I forgot poems yesterday at lunch so I read them during breakfast. They are anxious to get outside so I don't have to nag about our morning routine today. By 8, chores are done, they are dressed with teeth and hair brushed! Once they are outside,  I get myself and Norah ready for the day and do some chores. This week has a lot of doctor's appointments and field trips so today I have got to get all caught up with laundry so we can coast a bit. Despite being a homeschool mom and homebody, I refuse to let us be pajamas all day long people. But I may or may not admit that, knowing I'd be home all day today and that I really needed to get my one pair of non-yoga pants clean, I decided to put on clean clothes instead of pajamas last night so I didn't have to change this morning. I've ordered new pants and I really hope at least one pair fits because the situation is desperate. But such is life when you gain and lose 60 pounds with a pregnancy. It takes a good bit of time, and several transition sizes, to get it all off. I'm done now though and ready to stay one size for a while. 

8:15 Norah and I join Lucy and Jonah outside. Craig is almost done with the treehouse he is building the kids. It's not even finished but already they are loving it and since it is at the back of the yard, they are spending a lot more time exploring over there instead of hanging out on the driveway like they often do. They are up there making "a fire" (a pile of sticks and rocks) and exploring the woods and calling me to see every bug they find. This is fun except I try to use this time for Bible reading and prayer since Norah is normally happy to play by herself outside. It takes a while but eventually I get it all done.


9:00 - I head inside to switch laundry. A few minutes later the kids join me and Lucy and I do piano lessons (finishing book A! It took us over a year but we started moving along a lot faster once she could practice on her own and she's doing great so no worries, we'll just keep going).


We then do phonics with a lesson from The Ordinary Parent's guide to Teaching Reading.


10:00 Norah goes down for her first nap. She took two really long naps yesterday and knowing her, that means today's will be short. I gather the kids quickly and we start Table Time. We get done:

Bible Memory: Psalm 23
Hymn: Ancient Words
Folk: Blow the Man Down
Poems: Learning There was an Old Person who Habits and reviewing a Shakespeare passage. Both kids are really excited about all our song and poem choices lately which makes it easy to get started with school. We struggled last term a bit with actually learning the songs and that made it less fun because they can't read so it was my singing but I decided to have us review the lyrics more and so far, its helping a lot! Jonah's even singing along!

Jonah then does a bit of MEP Reception and a page of a Rod and Staff workbook before I say that's enough and send him off to build a couch pillow fort (he asked earlier but it wasn't a good time then so he was happy with this suggestion). Lucy works on copywork then when I'm free, she and I read/narrate a Blue Fairy Tale story, do math and go to start the next reading when...



10:35 - Norah's up already. Boo! She eats crayons and then Cheerios while I read about Black-capped Chickadees from the Burgess Bird Book. Once she's out of Cheerios she starts to complain about the lack of attention so but Jonah starts playing a weird game with her that makes her laugh. It involves his taking her things and then screaming at her and I don't really understand why she thinks its fun but she's laughing so hard she's falling over so I won't complain as long as no one ends up crying.



11:15 The kids color their birds and then move on to other free choice coloring/drawing/writing while I try to print homeschool field trip form that I need sent in for tomorrow's field trip, feed the hungry cranky baby and make lunch for the rest of us. I've recently started to change my lunch diet and include more nutrient dense foods - high protein salads, homemade broth, etc. Which makes lunch a bit more chaotic than when I just make some pb&js for everyone but eventually everyone is sitting quietly and eating and I catch my breathe and look at my school to-do list for the day. Oops, we forgot French. Luckily Norah is a slow eater so Lucy and I are able to do that while she's happily finishing up.


12:15 - Lucy's wants to work on her American Heritage Girls Pet Care badge and we do for a few minutes while Jonah and Norah are playing in his fort but he's quickly getting too "energetic" for baby play so finally I say "enough, everyone outside!" Lucy and I can keep working on her badge work though because she needs to take pictures of her chickens. The hardest part of this seems to be avoiding butts. Both chicken's "Mom, I don't want a chicken butt in the picture. Make them turn around" (have you ever tried to make six chickens stay in one spot and face a certain direction. Uhm, yeah, that's not gonna happen) and Jonah's because he isn't wearing pants - again.


Here's a nice single chicken shot she got but then she decided she wants them all together.

No, not a chicken butt!

More butts!

Eventually Lucy takes my suggestion of taking a picture of her holding a chicken.



Then they play more while I do a bit of reading. I don't make a whole lot of progress because Norah just wants to climb the cement stairs over and over again and my attention is divided but at least I tried.


1:15 - Inside again and time for nap stories - Maybelle the Cable Car, a handful of Nursery Rhymes from our favorite Mother Goose book and two chapters of Pinocchio that ended on a very suspenseful note. After fighting off "No! One more chapter! You can't stop there!" I left them with Librovox's Uncle Wiggly's Adventures playing. Norah isn't ready for a nap (I did try!) so she and I hang out in the living room. I watch a little Miss Fisher's Murder Mysteries while she goes around the room taking things out and not playing with them at all.

2:25:00 - Norah falls asleep.

2:35:30 - Big kids are up. They are good about getting up and playing quietly but alas, the speaker for their tablet that plays the audiobook makes a incredible awful and loud honking noise when it runs low on battery power so I have to get up and turn it off. I get them a snack, answer a few questions (Jonah - "But what is pineapple MADE OF?"), thank them for coloring quietly and let them know they can play outside if they want before I try to go back for a nap. After a minute I realize a nap is a lost cause so I go back out.

2:45 - Kids are eating and coloring while telling each other about the laws of mermaid and sea serpent world still and I try and get some work done on the computer. Jonah noticed my productivity and asks me to play a game with him. Since its much harder to play a game when Norah is awake, I agree and we begin a rousing round of Sneaky Snacky Squirrel. We get half way done (perhaps, SSS is a very time varied game. Sometimes it lasts 2 minutes, sometimes it lasts for hours) when Norah wakes up.



Weird angle but it was another pantsless situation. I'd work on this issue but I figure the cold weather is coming and that should do the trick ;-)

3:00 - I attempt to nurse her back to sleep when Craig calls. I ignore it but Norah is awake now. I call him back and am informed that the eggs we bought to supplement our chicken's lack of supply are recalled. You know, the container I finished this morning when I fed Norah and Jonah. I scrambled theirs and cooked them well so they should be fine. But I'm actually feeling pretty lucky; we do scrambled eggs for everyone 90% of the time but today Lucy requested "dippy" (aka over easy) and I grabbed the store eggs but forgot and scrambled them without thinking so gave those well cooked ones to N and J and did dippy with our own chicken's eggs for L and M. If I had served her half cooked recalled eggs I would be very worried right now, especially as we've already had a lot of vomiting in this house this week and I just don't think I could take more.

3:30 - Everyone is playing happily without me! I ponder dinner. This is pretty easy because Craig is stopping by Costco on the way home which means he can bring home a rotisserie chicken. I love Costco day but I just found out my potatoes were not in, uhm, optimum condition, so my side dishes need to be switched up. I'd say Pinterest to the rescue and partly so but I'm not sure Jonah is going to be pleased with my switching his request of mashed potatoes for cheesy garlic spaghetti squash. While on the computer I also try some new playlists of Spotify in an attempt to add new music to my non-school playlists but not finding much. Any suggestions of new artists/albums to try?

3:45 - I shoo everyone outside now that I have a dinner plan. The kids play and I watch for a little while before Norah and I head inside to start the squash. "We" pick up everything she took out, sweep, vacuum and fold all three loads of laundry before the big kids join us. This is what her "help" looks like:

4:45 - Lucy and I do her last school of the day - reading practice. We read two pages of Owl at Home. She is loving this book. She told me that she doesn't like reading to herself but she has to keep reading it because she just has to know what will happen because its always so funny, She's a little upset that there are only two more pages in her current chapter.

5:00 - Daddy's home! A quick dinner then I grab a shower while Craig plays a game with the kids. When I'm done, I keep Norah away from their game by playing magnatiles. She hands me tiles, a build a box, she puts the lid on the box and then smashes it. Repeat until I hate the sight of magnatiles.

6:15 - Craig leaves for a meeting. That was not a long enough break. Kids run around while I watch from the couch and when they have worked themselves up into a frenzy I yell out "pajamas!" Norah's overly tired so I speed read to kids, tuck them in and try to put her down but neighbor is setting off fireworks. Yes, fireworks. In October! This is the second time this week and its driving me crazy.

7:15 - Craig's home from his meeting early (it got canceled) and wondering why the big kids are already in bed. I hand him Norah and go back to read the Bible to the kids and then since Craig is still occupied, a bit more of Pinocchio. He puts Norah down and then goes to kiss kids goodnight and they somehow manage to convince him he needs to read his chapter book as well. Those kids, they can be quite persuasive. And here they thought they might not get any! But how can you say no to a request for more Narnia? While he reads, I finish up kitchen clean-up.

8:00 - Kids are asleep. Craig gives me a progesterone shot - fun times! Not sure what is worse, the shot in the butt or the fact that I was forced to listen to the VP debate while enduring that shot. Once I'm done, I go out of ear shot of debate again. Ahh, peace. I'm so over politics right now.

9:00 - Bedtime. I had plans to do more reading and maybe some knitting but I know the Progesterone will make me very sleepy tomorrow so I'm calling it a day early. Just kidding. I end up reading in bed on my phone. What can I say, I've got priorities :-)